This Thanksgiving, I am truly thankful for my Jewish identity and the amazing community that surrounds it. Growing up in South Jersey, I have been fortunate to be part of a dynamic Jewish community that has shaped my values, aspirations, and sense of belonging. This community has given me spiritual leadership, protection, and security by making it easy for me to express myself through my culture. From warm welcomes at all the local synagogues to the active events and opportunities within BBYO, this has allowed me to cherish my heritage in a substantial way. Whether it has been attending Shabbat services, youth leadership events, or community gatherings, I have always felt so attuned to the people and traditions that surround me.
One of the most rewarding aspects of my Jewish journey has been working with the Kitah Aleph (first grade) class at the Hebrew school at my temple. Teaching these young learners is not only about imparting knowledge to these young students but also inspiring the next generation to embrace their roots and traditions. It is a source of hope for me to see the continuity of our culture in their faces when they sing songs in Hebrew or light a menorah during Chanukkah. Their excitement upon learning new Hebrew words or participating in holiday activities reminds me of the beauty and resilience of our culture and the power of a strong Jewish identity. These moments not only strengthen my connection to Judaism but remind me of the responsibility I carry in passing on these traditions.
This year, I am even more grateful in light of recent challenges. Since the horrific events of October 7th, I have felt the need to hide my Jewish identity at school, fearing I might become a target. It was devastating to feel that I had to suppress a core part of myself for fear of judgment or hostility. It was an agonizing internal battle, but over time, I realized that by concealing my identity, I only diminished my pride in who I am. Today, I proudly wear my culture, from discussions of my faith to tangible symbols such as my Jewish Federation necklace of the love symbol that includes the Star of David. Pride in one's identity has become both resilience and defiance in its own way, especially in the aftermath of this traumatic event.
This transformation is greatly indebted to BBYO. Through leadership opportunities and connections with peers who share my values, I’ve found strength and confidence in celebrating Judaism openly. Together, we’ve built bonds that transcend stereotypes and misunderstandings, fostering unity at a time when it's needed most. The friendships and mentorship I have received from BBYO reminded me that even during the darkest of times, we are never alone.
As I reflect on Thanksgiving, I am reminded that gratitude is not only about being thankful for what we have but also about fighting for who we are. Being Jewish, to me, is a present, and I'm infinitely grateful for the opportunity to celebrate and share it with the world. This year, my gratitude feels deeper than ever as I’ve learned that resilience, community, and pride are some of the most powerful ways to combat hate and protect what matters most.
Alexis Rovner is a BBG in South Jersey Region who is passionate about reading, writing, dancing, volunteering, and actively participating in BBYO!
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