If You’re Struggling to Revive Your Small Chapter…Read This

October 28, 2025
Ava Sokol

Ocean, New Jersey, United States

Class of 2027

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BBYO is a grassroots organization, which, to me, means our community is just one big ripple effect. Our movement began in 1924 with 14 boys from Omaha, Nebraska, and a dream. They were searching for a safe space for Jewish teens. Twenty years later, Anita M. Perlman officially founded BBG with the first chapter in San Francisco, California. Now, take fourteen boys and multiply that by 5,000 teens, because we now reach 70,000 teens annually and are in 60 countries.

As a member of BBYO, it doesn’t matter where or when your journey begins — your why is what matters most. We all have a reason for being part of this incredible organization, which we hold near and dear to our hearts.

Maybe it was an older, wiser member who texted you six times in a row until you finally showed up to your first event. Perhaps it was an older sibling who wanted you to follow in their footsteps. Or maybe it was your parents, who met in BBYO and forced you to go to your first chapter event. Everyone has that something or someone that fuels their passion for this incredible movement.

I know reviving a chapter can be scary, especially without a full board or a large team. First, you should know that you’re never alone. You have counterparts, staff, and board members rooting for you. Never be afraid to speak up and ask for help! We’re all in this together.

My advice is to text everyone under the sun, even if you don’t think they’re interested. Welcome any and every Jewish teen in with open arms. The responses you receive might just surprise you! Don’t be scared to take a chance on someone, because like I said earlier, I’m sure someone did the same for you. The key is to be persistent and have patience. It might take time, but eventually you’ll get there!

If you have such a passionate and immense love in your heart for the siblinghood of BBYO, you can do anything you set your mind to. It’s okay to be scared, but just know that all your hard work is not for nothing. From those fourteen boys in Omaha to you and me, the possibilities are endless. You have the power to bring your vision to life.

Ava Sokol is a BBG from Shore BBYO #5028 in Greater Jersey Region: Central Council and has a mini labordoodle named Leo.

All views expressed on content written for The Shofar represent the opinions and thoughts of the individual authors. The author biography represents the author at the time in which they were in BBYO.

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